It is important to be respectful and mindful of others during a funeral, as it is a time for mourning and remembering the deceased. Here are some things that should be avoided when attending a funeral:
- Avoid making jokes or lighthearted comments about the deceased or the situation. This can be hurtful and disrespectful to those who are mourning.
- Avoid discussing sensitive or personal information about the deceased or their family, as this can be disrespectful and cause additional pain.
- Avoid discussing your own problems or troubles, as this can take away from the focus of the funeral and the memory of the deceased.
- Avoid talking about the cause of death, especially if it is still under investigation or if it is a sensitive topic for the family.
- Avoid discussing any negative or controversial opinions about the deceased or their family. This can cause additional stress and upset for those who are grieving.
- Avoid speaking loudly or interrupting others who are speaking, as this can be disruptive and disrespectful.
- Avoid using social media or phone during the funeral, as this can be disrespectful and take away from the solemnity of the occasion.
- Avoid discussing any financial or legal matters related to the deceased or their estate, as this can be inappropriate and disrespectful.
- Avoid discussing any religious or political views that may be controversial or divisive, as this can cause additional upset and stress for those who are grieving.
- Avoid discussing any plans or arrangements for the future, as this can be disrespectful and take away from the focus of the funeral.
It is also important to be respectful and mindful of the customs and traditions of the family or community hosting the funeral. Following these guidelines will help ensure that the funeral is a respectful and meaningful occasion for all involved.
In summary, a funeral is a solemn occasion for mourning and remembering the deceased. It is important to be respectful, mindful and considerate of others during this time. Avoid making jokes or lighthearted comments, discussing sensitive or personal information, discussing your own problems, talking about the cause of death, discussing negative or controversial opinions about the deceased or their family, speaking loudly or interrupting others, using social media or phone, discussing financial or legal matters, discussing religious or political views and discussing future plans.
If you are going to be giving a Eulogy at the funeral please view our guide at HOW TO WRITE A EULOGY
Also another important consideration in terms of funeral etiquette is what to wear to a funeral which is covered in our article on WHAT TO WEAR TO A FUNERAL
